IFS Therapy
How IFS Therapy Can Help You Break Free from Painful Patterns
Do you ever feel like different parts of you are at war with each other? One part of you wants to set boundaries, but another part is terrified of rejection. Maybe you want to heal from past trauma, but something inside keeps pulling you back into self-doubt or self-sabotage. It’s exhausting—like you’re spinning in circles, unable to break free.
You might find yourself reacting in ways you don’t fully understand—lashing out, shutting down, or over-explaining to keep the peace. You try to push past your struggles, but the same old wounds keep resurfacing. Even when things seem fine on the outside, inside, you feel disconnected, anxious, or overwhelmed by shame.
Perhaps you’ve been through therapy before, but nothing seems to truly shift at a deep level. You know you’re capable of more peace, confidence, and self-acceptance, but something keeps getting in the way. If only you could understand why you keep feeling triggered, stuck, or emotionally exhausted, maybe you could finally move forward.
The good news? There’s a reason for these patterns—and a way to heal them. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy offers a compassionate and effective approach to working with the different parts of you that have been trying to protect you all along. Through IFS, also known as parts work therapy, you can begin to understand and heal these inner conflicts instead of feeling controlled by them. You don’t have to stay stuck in the past or fight against yourself anymore. Healing is possible, and it starts with understanding all the parts of you that make you who you are.
You Are Not Broken—Your Struggles Make Sense
If you feel overwhelmed by emotions, stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or at war with different parts of yourself, you are not alone. Many people experience this inner conflict, and it often stems from past experiences, trauma, or deeply ingrained survival strategies.
It’s natural to have different parts of yourself that react in different ways. Maybe one part of you longs for connection, while another pushes people away to avoid getting hurt. You might feel the urge to achieve and perform, yet struggle with self-doubt or procrastination. These internal conflicts can be exhausting, leading to anxiety, depression, perfectionism, and even self-sabotaging behaviors. Internal family systems therapy helps explain why these struggles happen and how to heal them.
Research shows that adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) significantly impact emotional regulation and mental health in adulthood [1]. When we go through trauma or stressful life experiences, parts of us develop protective roles to keep us safe. Some of these roles may look like people-pleasing, avoidance, or self-criticism. While these strategies helped us survive at one point, they often create challenges in our adult lives. This is where parts work therapy can be transformative, allowing you to work with these protective parts rather than feeling controlled by them.
Working with an IFS therapist, you’ll learn how to connect with these inner parts, understand their deeper needs, and help them heal. Instead of feeling stuck in painful patterns, you can develop self-awareness, self-compassion, and a sense of internal balance.
For those who have experienced trauma, combining IFS and EMDR can be especially effective. This integrative approach allows you to process past wounds while strengthening your internal sense of safety. No matter what you’ve been through, healing is possible. Internal family systems provides a path to deep self-understanding and lasting change.

Find Healing and Inner Harmony with IFS Therapy
If you’ve felt stuck in patterns of self-doubt, emotional overwhelm, or inner conflict, know that there is a way forward. The struggles you’re facing aren’t a sign that something is wrong with you—they’re parts of you trying to protect you in the only ways they know how. Through Internal Family Systems, you can begin to understand these parts, work with them instead of against them, and cultivate deep healing from within.
Many people come to therapy feeling disconnected from themselves, struggling with anxiety, depression, or persistent feelings of not being “good enough.” These feelings often stem from unresolved experiences in the past, where different parts of you took on protective roles to help you survive. Maybe a perfectionist part drives you to constantly achieve, while another part holds deep shame and fear of failure. Or perhaps a people-pleasing part avoids conflict at all costs, while another part feels unseen and resentful. These inner conflicts can feel overwhelming, but internal family systems therapy provides a compassionate and structured way to work through them.
As an IFS therapist, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore these internal dynamics with curiosity and compassion. Our sessions will be tailored to your unique needs and experiences. We’ll begin by identifying the different parts of you that show up in your daily life—whether that’s an anxious inner critic, a protective perfectionist, or a part that numbs emotions through avoidance or self-sabotage. Using IFS, we’ll help these parts step out of their extreme roles so you can experience greater emotional balance.
For those who have experienced trauma, I integrate IFS and EMDR, a powerful combination that supports deep healing. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) allows the brain to process traumatic experiences so they no longer hold the same emotional intensity. At the same time, IFS helps us understand how different parts of you have been carrying the burden of these past wounds. By combining these approaches, we can work at a pace that feels safe while allowing for profound shifts in how you relate to yourself and your past.
Healing isn’t about getting rid of parts of yourself—it’s about creating harmony within. When you learn to work with yourself rather than against yourself with parts work therapy, you gain the ability to navigate life with more confidence, clarity, and self-acceptance. My approach is not about forcing change but about helping you develop self-awareness, self-compassion, and a deeper connection with your true self.
I have been providing therapy for 10 years, and I’ve seen firsthand how powerful IFS can be. When clients commit to their healing journey, real transformation happens. I’ve watched people who once felt stuck in cycles of anxiety, shame, or self-sabotage step into lives that feel more authentic, free, and fulfilling. You don’t have to stay trapped in the patterns of the past. With the right support, you can move beyond old wounds and embrace a future where you feel more whole, empowered, and at peace.
Addressing Your Concerns About IFS Therapy
Ready to Begin Your Healing Journey with IFS Therapy?
Together, we’ll explore your inner world with compassion, helping every part of you feel seen and understood. Whether you’re struggling with trauma, anxiety, or patterns that no longer serve you, this approach can guide you toward deep, lasting change. If you’re ready to reconnect with yourself in a meaningful way, I’m here to help. Complete my contact form today to schedule a session—I look forward to supporting you.
[1] Felitti, V. J., Anda, R. F., Nordenberg, D., Williamson, D. F., Spitz, A. M., Edwards, V., Koss, M. P., & Marks, J. S. (1998). The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study: Relationship of childhood abuse and household dysfunction to many of the leading causes of death in adults. American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 14(4), 245–258. Read the study.
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